Where does the whole world disagree with me?

Cringe is ok

If you are running towards something, you would be a cringe to the mass. That is not because cringe is so much required to get there, it is because you are not being cool. you are hardly even being yourself. you are trying to evolve too fast. people hate that shit.

If I can slog my way through, then I am aiming too low

As a child, I grew up thinking that I need to be slogging and forcing myself to grind to get there. Or otherwise, I am not trying well enough. Unlearnt this the hard way that I need to enjoy the journey to get there. If I can coerce my way through, then I am aiming too low.